During the day moods often rise and fall; sometimes we cannot even pinpoint why. Research has shown that there are things that affect mood and productivity negatively. But guess what? A tip regarding every mood can be found in the Quran and the sunnah!
Allah ‘azza wa jall says in this week’s central ayah: This [Quran] is enlightenment for mankind and guidance and mercy for a people who are certain [in faith]. [Quran, 45:20]
Let’s discover eight things that affect your mood and some daily-life tips from the Quran and sunnah to enhance your mood, inshaa’Allah!
8 mood-flatteners and how to battle them
1. Comparing yourself to others
Wherever you are, you are bombarded by images of photo-shopped men and women, whether it is by the media or the brushed up selfies people upload on social media. And whether you realize it or not, your self-image and your mood can be affected by the images you see. You start thinking about all the things you don’t have and the things you don’t like about yourself, even though you know most of these images are not even real.
Tip: The Prophet salallahu ‘alayhi wa sallam said: When one of you looks at one who stands at a higher level than you in regard to wealth and physical structure he should also see one who stands at a lower level than you in regard to these things. [Muslim] The simplest solution is to avoid these pictures, but sometimes you can’t or won’t. Next time, confront yourself straight away by remembering those who have less than you. In this way you can balance yourself and your gratitude to Allah.
2. Too much social media time
Researchers have recently found that the more time people spend on social media, the less they feel content or happy with their own lives.
Tip: A way to battle this social media effect on your self-esteem is to share something beneficial on social media, something that can benefit others, for example, an amazing hadith or a life-changing tip. Contributing something positive is great for your self-esteem.
3. Too much time with negative people
Chances are that if you spend a lot of time with an ill person, you get ill, too. The same goes for emotions, and negativity is often more contagious than positivity.
Tip: Try to avoid spending too much time sitting with people who constantly complain, and if you can’t avoid these people, try to bring some positivity to the encounter instead of going along or silently listening to all the negativity! Think of this beautiful ayah inspiring you to advise others to truth (and gratefulness) and patience: Except for those who have believed and done righteous deeds and advised each other to truth and advised each other to patience. [Quran, 103:3]
4. Being disorganized
It’s simple; when your house is a mess or your desk is covered with papers, it affects your mood. Conversely, a clean and organized environment makes you feel much better!
Tip: Be motivated by: Cleanliness is half the faith (emaan). [Muslim] This means outer and inner cleanliness. A simple tip to start off with is to designate certain places for all your frequently used items and make this a closed drawer or box. When your mind doesn’t “see” all these items (which mean unfinished business) you feel less overwhelmed and can slowly deal with the tidying up.
5. Too much screen time just before bedtime
According to research, being exposed to the bright screen lights of phones, tablets, etc. can suppress the production of melatonin in your body, a hormone that regulates your mood and can only be produced in darkness.
Tip: Impose this strict rule on yourself: at least 15 minutes before bedtime don’t look at any bright screens. Instead follow the sunnah and read the special “before sleeping” supplications. You can find them here.
6. Going to bed too late
Many of our “to-do’s” come at the expense of our sleep, but research shows that people who consistently got to sleep late at night are more likely to develop depression. Another issue is that we end up browsing our phone for ages for our newsfeeds and messages as a way to relax just before we sleep, eating into the valuable “dark” time that Allah ‘azza wa jall made for us to sleep.
Tip: Simply reflect on this ayah and let it motivate you to beat temptation at nighttime: It is Allah who made for you the night that you may rest therein and the day giving sight. Indeed, Allah is full of bounty to the people, but most of the people are not grateful. [Quran, 40:61]
7. Resisting relaxation
In our desire as believers to spend our time wisely, we might forget that sometimes we need to relax to restore our willpower! Too much resisting of any (halaal) means of relaxation can actually negatively affect mood and productivity.
Tip: There are multiple ahadeeth about the importance of recreation, emphasizing its value in helping someone to regain vitality and increase in productivity. Handalah bin Aamir once complained to the Prophet that some of his time is intermingled with playing with his children and family. The Prophet answered: . . . But there should be a time for this and a time for serious deeds. [Al-Bukhaaree and Muslim]
8. Junk food
Some foods, such as foods that contain high amounts of omega-6 and are deep-fried (like crisps and chips) negatively affect your brain.
Tip: Think about the command this ayah contains: O you People! Eat of what is on earth, halaal and pure (tayyib), and do not follow the footsteps of the Satan; Indeed for he is to you an open enemy. [Quran, 2:168] Let this motivate you to not only focus on eating that which is halaal, but also how tayyib the food you eat is. One study mentioned that decreasing omega-6 and increasing omega-3 can positively affect your mood! Examples of the world’s most rich omega-3 foods are walnuts, sardines, salmon, beef, soybeans, tofu, shrimp, Brussels sprouts, and cauliflower.
Praying you will benefit,
Khawlah bint Yahya – United Kingdom.
This is the best article which has to be circulated among the negative attitude teen agers who are largely falling prey to this kind of behaviour which consits of these 8 factors. I recommend this article to be highlited especially in the women colleges where the teen agers who are in intermediate and degree level ..
Beautiful article ma sha Allah. May Allah save this ummah from the temptations that may lead to depression……Amin
If only people do follow these tips and advices how happy they would be SubhanAllah! may Allah open up their hearts and give them the Hidaya, aameen
It’s really commendable that we have addressed 8 real life issues and how best we can manage them through the revelations in Qur’an . This should continue .
Subhan Allah , Jazak Allahu Khayran..
Times of fitnah are here and these things are so widespread. People desire social companionship. But these things (facebook, texting, instagram, etc) destroy the social fabric of nations and communities.
Allah mentioned in the Quran that contains two types of Verses/ayat. One is clear in meaning and did not change till the end of this world. The second type is not clear in meaning and are suitable at all times till Qiamat. But many go astray if they interpret using their own brain without referring to the specialist in Tafsir of Alquran/Ulamak. The two types of ayat are MUHAKAMAT AND MUTASYABIHAT. The Syayateen or singular Syaitan would whisper and near to us giving the false interpretation.
Those who had gone Astray did not have the protection of Allah and did not request from Allah the daily protection mentioned in Surah 23:ayat 97 & 98 Surah Mukminun. May all our brothers and sisters in Islam request to Allah these two ayats everyday so that we would stick to group 73 mentioned by our beloved Rasul s.a.wassalam that 72 groups will enter Hell and only one group enter Paradise. The group answered by Him is those who hold the Quran, The Sunnah of the last prophet of the world and the Sunnah of his Sahabat. May Allah stick us to the group 1 or 73 till the end of our life. Assalam from Muhammad Razale and please share this message to avoid us trap in the 72 groups by the influence of the non-seeing enemy Syayateen.
Assalama Aliecum to every one.
My age is 52 years and since i was little boy i am always felling depression/negative thinking/fear. i got treatment many time from doctor but no proper benefits. Please for GOD any one can help me.